Condolence Flower Stands in Singapore: Sizes, Prices and What to Write on the Banner

When someone passes, the people around the family do what they can. They show up at the wake. They bring food. They sit in silence when words fail. And many of them send a condolence flower stand, because in Singapore, a stand at the wake is one of the most visible, most enduring ways to say: I was here. I honoured this person. I stood with your family.

But if you have never ordered one before, the process can feel unfamiliar and a little overwhelming. What size should you get? Single or double? What flowers are appropriate? What do you write on the ribbon?

This guide answers all of it, clearly and without unnecessary fuss.

What Is a Condolence Flower Stand?

A condolence flower stand is a tall, freestanding floral arrangement displayed at a wake or funeral service. It typically stands between 150cm and 200cm tall and sits on a metal easel or a cardboard base. At the front, a printed banner carries the sender's name and a message of condolence.

Unlike a bouquet or a wreath, a flower stand is designed to be seen from a distance. It fills a space with presence and dignity. During a wake in Singapore, stands are usually arranged in rows near the altar, the entrance of the venue, or along the sides of the main hall. They stay displayed for the entire duration of the wake, which means every visitor who comes to pay their respects will see it.

Sending a condolence flower stand is a gesture of public respect. It says not just that you care, but that you want the family and everyone around them to know you care.

Single Stand or Double Stand: Which Should You Send?

When in doubt, a single stand is always appropriate. The gesture matters more than the size.

Condolence Stand Prices in Singapore: What to Expect

All The Bloom Box condolence stands are made with fresh flowers and include a printed signage banner at no additional charge. If you are comparing florists, always confirm whether the signage banner is included and what flowers are being used. At a wake, the arrangement will be seen by many people, and presentation matters.

What Flowers Are Used in a Condolence Flower Stand?

The flowers in a condolence stand are not chosen decoratively. They carry meaning, and in Singapore, that meaning is shaped by decades of cultural tradition.

A note on colour: White is the traditional and safest choice for condolence flowers in Singapore across all cultures. Pale yellow is also acceptable, particularly for Chinese funerals. Bright colours, reds, and oranges are generally avoided. If the deceased had a favourite flower or colour, a thoughtful florist can incorporate it in a way that remains respectful.

What to Write on the Condolence Banner Ribbon

The banner ribbon is printed with your name and a short message, and it is displayed on the stand throughout the wake. It is the part of the arrangement that people read. It is also the part that most people agonise over.

The message does not need to be profound. It needs to be sincere and clear.

When placing your order with The Bloom Box, include your preferred message in the order notes. We handle the formatting, printing, and placement on the ribbon.

Where Condolence Stands Are Displayed in Singapore

• Funeral parlours such as Mount Vernon, Kong Meng San Phor Kark See Monastery, Singapore Casket, and Mandai — formal venues where stands are commonly arranged in rows or flanking the altar
• HDB void deck wakes — the most common setting for Chinese funerals in Singapore, where stands are placed beneath the tentage near the entrance or along the sides
• Churches hosting Christian funeral services — stands displayed near the entrance, altar, or along the nave; white roses and lilies are most appropriate here
• Buddhist and Taoist temples — designated areas for condolence stands; white and yellow chrysanthemums are the standard and most respectful choice
• Private homes — less common for stands due to space, but smaller arrangements and sympathy bouquets are always welcomed

For every condolence stand order, we photograph the delivered arrangement at the venue and send the image to you. You will know it arrived, and you will see exactly how it looked in the space.

If you need to order outside standard hours, or if your situation is urgent, contact us directly. Sudden loss does not wait for business hours, and we do our best not to either.